What can I do to make my husband like me again?

You sound wonderful and like you have a great life with your career, family, friends and great childhood, I do hope you find the strength to end your marriage with this man, he will and is slowly tearing you down and creating you to have these anxieties, it will prob. Be one of the hardest things to do leaving him, but with your therapy and support systems with family and friends you'll find you can be happier than ever before and fall in love again in a healthy relationship, please no children with this man, that won't fix anything... Good luck!